Almost every teacher will have
to deal with the diversity of religious beliefs, or non-beliefs, that their
students and parents embrace in their lives. An overwhelming amount has been
written about the U.S. Constitution’s First Amendment, what it means, and how
it should play out in public schools.
No matter what our own beliefs and
interpretations, it is a public school teacher’s responsibility to keep church
and state separate. At the same time, we want to appropriately address the
questions and ideas growing children may have. In addition, public schools must
accommodate, without supporting, specific religious practices that families
observe. On top of all that, some
religious beliefs differ with curricular content.
In a nutshell, the Supreme Court has ruled
that public schools may not sponsor or require religious practices but may
teach about religion. Even with specific rulings like these, I find that there
are still many differing interpretations.
Many administrators believe that
local policies overrule state policies, while state lawmakers believe they
override local guidelines. Into the bargain, teachers are held to
a higher standard by some. “Teachers are always teachers”, they say and, if a
child sees his/her teacher bow their head, they may feel coerced into following
suit. It can seem like a confusing mess, but teachers in the trenches must
still make it work.
It’s a daunting task and often one that
teachers aren’t aware they’ll be responsible for. It’s impossible to completely
prepare for all possibilities, but I’ve gathered my best suggestions for
dealing with religious differences in the public classroom.
Prepare Yourself
1.
Be
fully aware of this dichotomy:
•Public schools may not sponsor any religious activity.
•Students and their families have
the right to express their religion in a variety
of ways, including
non-attendance and taking a pass on particular content
lessons.
2.
Understand
that “teaching religion” and “teaching about
religion” are two very different things. Referring
to any religion and/or its teachings or holy writings is not wrong.
There are certainly religion classes and other lessons that may touch on
aspects of religion. For example, we cannot teach about why Europeans came to
the New World without at least mentioning freedom of religion.
3.
Approach
any discussion where some aspect of religion may be mentioned with the care and
respect you would give to any talk on diversity. We’re all allowed to hold our own
beliefs. Explain clearly that nothing is meant to make a judgment, you are
simply stating facts and we are learning.
4. Be
absolutely certain that you have a specific teaching standard or objective that
you can point to in case you need to defend yourself. For
years, I taught my students how to use a timeline. I explained that in the
western world, we use the birth of Christ as our “beginning marker”.
One year,
I was moving through the lesson when I noticed there was a truly uncomfortable
silence across the room. Eyes were flicking back and forth. When I asked if
everything was alright, one child volunteered, “You said Christ.”
I realized
then how sensitive a subject religion had become. At the time, teaching how to
use a timeline was basic curriculum ELA and math curriculum and you simply
can’t do it without referring to the birth of Christ. I knew I could point to
the curriculum if any questions were raised.
5. Adopt
a “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy about your own or your students’ religious
beliefs or practices. Discussing
any personal beliefs is best left alone.
On the other hand, have my students
enthusiastically shared events and activities from their churches,
Sunday Schools, and Bible Schools with me? You bet they have and I have celebrated with
them and congratulated them.
Two important concepts here are: I did not
initiate the conversation, the child did. Also, we teach the whole child. No teacher worth their
tennis shoes would brusquely dismiss a child who is eagerly sharing something
that they value.
When
Beliefs and Curriculum Collide
What about when parents take
exception to some content that you’re teaching? I’ve experienced these:
•A
parent shook her finger in my face and warned me, “You better never use the
word ‘evolution’ in front of my child!”
•I
once used the phrase “millions of years” in a science class. Several students
let me know the earth wasn’t that old.
•A colleague let me know that her husband might send me an ugly email complaining
about my use of the term “global warming”, which he didn’t think existed. My
colleague had argued on my behalf, reminding her husband that I did not set the
curriculum, I just taught it. He stated, “Well, she shouldn’t say it if it’s
not true.”
•Many
of my colleagues have had parents say, “We do not believe in or condone
witchcraft. Do not assign Harry
Potter to
our child.”
You cannot change the
curriculum to keep every parent happy. You have to teach your district’s
curriculum, but there are ways that you can prepare ahead of time.
6. Be
proactive, even before the school year starts. Find a way to ask about anything
special that parents want you to know about their child. The school where I
spent most of my career developed a Student Information Sheet for
back-to-school that included basic information, a place for medical information
that we needed to know from the first, an “anything else you’d like us to know”
section, and even a place to share their child’s interests and hobbies.
When I
met parents and gave them this form, I always pointed out the “anything else”
section and encouraged them to include things such as behaviors, custody, or
religious concerns. Consider bringing such an idea to your administration to be
better prepared.
7.
Consider
revisiting your traditional holiday activities and opting for more global,
inclusive activities. This
is the big question for many public school teachers, especially in the lower
grades: How does all of this play out during religious holidays, such as
Christmas and Easter? Especially at Christmas, so many academic and art
activities are aimed at what has been done since we were all kids – wreath
projects, math activities where you buy gifts, singing traditional songs, and
of course, the Christmas party! Again, there is a fine but definite line
between teaching about a religious holiday and actually celebrating it. If you
focus on
Christmas, the argument can be made that
you’re promoting one religion over another.
To address this, many schools have begun
to downplay holiday celebrations in general and to search out more globally
inclusive activities that don’t focus on religion. Schools have begun to call their
seasonal holidays by names that
sound
less religious. “Happy Holidays” and
“Season’s Greetings” have replaced “Merry Christmas”. December holidays are now
“Winter Break”. “Easter Vacation” has become “Spring Break”.
In the classroom, consider using activities and projects that
are more winter-oriented. If you have a party, simply request items by their
generic names. Then you needn’t fret if a parent sends in cupcakes with a Santa
on them.
8. Always
be ready with an alternative activity. Sometimes
families will ask that their child not participate in a particular holiday
activity or even a content lesson. This could take some coordination and
collaboration on a school-wide scale and is an excellent time to involve
administration.
If you know that a family has three children in your school that don’t celebrate a particular holiday, work together to provide activities
that don’t seem punitive. This is a time that your technology could really
help. If you need to physically separate the students from the class by parent
request, possibly a volunteer could come in to supervise the alternate
activity. NOTE: Be very wary of accepting alternate activities from the parents
who made the request. It could very easily become “teaching religion” in
school. I did not
show the video on creationism to my classes.
9. Change
what you can and keep what you can’t. If parents object to a particular book, that’s an easy fix - choose
another one. If they object to a particular term or concept, that’s tougher. I
continued to use the term “global warming”, but also say “climate change”.
Again, as in tip #4, be absolutely certain that you
are covered in the curriculum. If
you have a parent really go toe-to-toe with you over a word or concept, do your
best to remain calm and compassionate.
I recommend that you share the situation with your administrator beforehand and
make them aware that you may need assistance. Invite the parents to talk with you and
listen to what they have to say. Explain very matter-of-factly what you’ll be
saying to cover the curriculum. If they ask for an alternate assignment, you’ll
be prepared. If they are still not satisfied, that will be the time to bring in
administrative support.
10.
When
in doubt, ask. I’ve
asked several times over the years if I could give a child a birthday,
Christmas, or Easter memento. Parents are generally very appreciative of your
effort. Always get administrative and parental approval on any activity or
lesson that falls into even a gray area. Yes, it’s a pain, but cheaper than a
lawsuit. Again, access what previous teachers have done in their classrooms.
On
The Fly
The suggestions and
practices above work best when you know a particular topic will be discussed
and you have time to prepare your comments. In real life, we don’t always have
that advantage. What do you do when a student asks a question or makes a
comment that you weren't expecting?
11. Don’t
be afraid to take a pass on certain questions. Sometimes, it’s just not worth the
headache. It’s OK to look puzzled and say, “I don’t know” or even frankly
state, “That’s an interesting question and something you should probably
discuss it at home with your parents.” A warm smile can show your student that
you’re not
displeased
with him, just moving on.
12. Don’t
be afraid to interrupt a student’s question or statement. There
aren’t many times this is appropriate but I’ve had occasion to cut across a
student’s statement, saying, “We’re not going to talk about that. We’ll save
that for home talk.”
13. Become
a master of changing the subject. I consider this strategy a little lame, but I’ve done it. As a teacher,
you are responsible for the conversational content during lessons. There are
times that looking at your watch and exclaiming, “Gosh, it’s time for lunch!”
can really pull your fat out of the fire. This works much better for younger
children, not so much for middle and high-schoolers. In that case…
14. When
a question comes out of left field, redirect everyone’s attention to the task
at hand. A
student asked me once if I believed in a particular social topic. Since we were
in the middle of independent math work, I replied, “I believe…we should get
back to math and finish this assignment.”
15. Make
a Question Box. Even
the most seasoned, sensitive teachers can’t always foresee what questions and
comments will come up during a school day. For those times that you’re pretty
sure some zingers may come up, introduce the age-old Question Box ahead of
time. You can filter inappropriate questions and plan your answers.
I'd love to hear your experiences on this topic. Best wishes!